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Charity in the Chat Room

A first contribution
from one in the monastery
styling himself:
flos eremi
Regular readers of this blog will have noticed that comments on the blog have been turned off because of abusive statements. Unfortunately this sort of behaviour by a few bitter Catholics is not limited to this blog, but plagues the Catholic blogosphere to such an extent that it is even encouraged on certain Traditional Catholic sites. The lack of Christian charity, the constant bickering, name-calling, slander, detraction and calumny has reached truly epidemic proportions on some tabloid-like sedevacantist sites (we choose to not name them rather than give them cheap publicity) and this poison is then digested and regurgitated in other traditional Catholic sites. One Sedevacantist site that masquerades as Catholic and which is run by anonymous priests, could easily teach Jack Chick a thing or two about spreading lies and hatred about the Pope and the Catholic church. The sickening deluge of vitriolic bile poured forth in some Catholic forums on a daily basis is truly reminiscent of the vomitoriums of ancient Rome.

G. K. Chesterton
The great Catholic writers of yesteryear Belloc and Chesterton were able to get their point of view across with wit and humour. Being civil in our speech is something most of us try to practice in our daily dealings with our neighbour. But the anonymity available on the internet today has given birth to legions of keyboard warriors and pamphlet-theologians who are self-styled periti on every subject under the sun. No one is safe from their withering tongues, not even the Holy Father. Expressions like heretic, apostate etc... come freely without even the slightest attempt to check their rancour. If you must indulge in venting your spleen, have the courage to face up to the consequences of your comments and put your name, email address or your photograph to your comment or post. Hiding behind a pseudonym in these cases is sheer cowardice.

Whatever happened to charity in our speech? “Learn of me, because I am meek and humble of heart” says our Lord. [St. Mt. XI:19] Do we really think that there are no consequences to what we say on the internet? But I say unto you, that every idle word that men shall speak, they shall render an account for it in the day of judgment. [St.Mt XII:36]. Do we think that we are really helping anyone or converting souls by the use of bitter sarcasm and malicious words that are designed to wound rather than to edify? charge them before the Lord to avoid disputing about words, which does no good, but only ruins the hearers. [2 Tim:II:14]. Are we really proud of our words? Rejoicing that we have “won” the argument? He is proud, knowing nothing, but sick about questions and strifes of words; from which arise envies, contentions, blasphemies, evil suspicions. [1Tim:VI:4] But shun profane and vain babblings: for they grow much towards ungodliness. And their speech spreadeth like a canker... [2Tim:II:16,17]


It would perhaps be a good thing if the moderators on Catholic blogs and those who comment on them were aware of the gravity of the sin of Detraction and Calumny. The following is a summary of the Moral Theology of Dom. Prummer, O.P., on Detraction. A man has a right to his reputation in justice and no man’s reputation may be attacked without undue reason. Detraction (defamatio) may be defined as the unjust destruction of another’s reputation. It is the unjust revealing of a true hidden fault. Detraction may be divided as follows: Formal Detraction arises when one has the intention of harming another’s reputation and this is always a mortal sin. Material Detraction arises when one has some other intention. This may be allowable if there is sufficient reason, otherwise it is usually a venial sin, but could become mortal because of the gravity of the words used. Direct Detraction is when we reveal another’s faults: either by the accusation of a false crime, and this is called calumny, or by exaggerating a crime, by revealing a hidden crime, or by interpreting a good action as a bad one. Indirect Detraction is when we minimize another’s good qualities and this can take place by denying one’s good virtues, acts etc, by diminishing his good works, by silencing those who praise a man’s good qualities, by moderating our praise with a “but...”.

Calumny is detraction with the addition of a lie. While a lie by itself is a venial sin, Calumny has the same moral species as detraction. The lie in calumny has an aggravating circumstance only. The principle here is that unjust detraction is a mortal sin ex genere suo against justice and charity regardless if the detraction is true or not. This is proved from 1Cor: VI:10 and Romans 1:30.

The reason is that the more harm done to the neighbour, the greater is the sin; the greater the good destroyed, the more harm done. Reputation is a greater good than material possessions, the destruction of which can be a mortal sin in grave matter. Hence, a priori, so too with detraction. One needs to know that the greater the dignity of the person detracted, the greater is the offence. The more hearers there are, the more there are who are likely to repeat the detraction and hence greater will be the sin. With regards to Calumny, the intention is always malicious and hence calumny is always a mortal sin in grave matter.

We may indeed have the true faith; we may rightly be pleased with all the good works and prayers we offer up. But if we don’t have charity where does that leave us? St Paul tells us that if we speak with the tongues of men and angels and have not charity, we are become like sounding brass, like tinkling cymbals.[1Cor XIII:1] And right now the sound of brass and tinkling cymbals emanating from Catholic comment boxes and forums is simply deafening.

"flos eremi"

book week... day four

yesterday i was distracted by Miss Ethel and Miss Margery,
i do not often speak of Miss Margery
and there are reasons for this.
Miss Margery belongs to Our #1
and on many an occasion i have sat in my studio
hearing the floorboards above shake with her usage.
i feared for Miss Margery and the sewing traumas she endured
at the hands of Our #1


actually, her name isn't Miss Margery,
Our #1 gave her a name quite unsuited to her lovely stitching ways.
so upon discovery of Miss Margery holed up in the back of the closet
after Our #1 left the shed for the bright lights of old blighty,
i took her out,
dusted her down
and called her Miss Margery.
she travelled alongside of Miss Ethel, to the big city

upon returning to the shed,
i have placed Miss Margery in my studio
and yesterday she showed me her coat of many stitches,
let us just say, i was smitten.
together a threesome of the utmost kind,
(not seen since the days of dorothy, mr hook and dr hook)
resulted in handcrafty goodness
soon to be hanging in my little shop window.


but for today, we will continue our grand book week
hip hip hooray!!
Lotta Jansdotter needs no introduction i am quite sure,
she is a crafter, designer and artist extraordinaire.


Lotta appeals to me,
in the way japanese craft books appeal.
in all their pretty, handcrafted, inspiring goodness
combined with the clean lines i look for,
when living with handcrafted.


most of all she appeals to me for a particular reason,
many moons ago,
i read a little bit of blurb
and the blurb told of Lotta being a self taught crafter.

i gasped 'thee gasp'
and knew right then and there,
i wished to hug Lotta on the spot,
thank her for saying it with pride.
it is interesting to look back now, quite a few years on
and see it was a defining moment for me and my crafty soul.
to know Lotta had succeeded with her own crafty soul,
wonderful aesthetics and beautiful self taughtness,
gave me the confidence to start up my little shop on Etsy,
to ramble upon this here shiny place
and
to continue along the righteous and goodly path of handcrafting.




Lotta's lovely book Handmade Living opens the door to her world,
showing how she creates her signature scandinavian style
within her beautiful home and studio.
allowing the reader to truly get a glimpse into her handmade world,
highlighting her inspirations,
her family traditions
and her decorating style,
page after page of a handmade life is revealed,
it truly is a lovely book indeed


she is trying to muster up some of that same confidence and drive to the big city on her own, gulp! ~ Tif

Viva il Papa!


What looked like the addition of the tiara to the papal coat of arm seems to have been either a mistake or a testing of the waters; the Vatican issued a statement over the point through Fr. Lombardi.

We hope for its full return.

Thank you, Holy Father!

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Video here.

A Red Letter Day

Feast of the
Motherhood of the Blessed Virgin Mary

11 October

ΜΡ ΘΥ
Μήτηρ Θεού
Mater Theou
Mother of God

The red Letters painted on either side of the
Mother of Perpetual Succour
are Greek abbreviations:
ΜΡ for Mater meaning Mother
and
ΘΥ for Theou meaning of God.

In the year 431
the father of the Council of Ephesus,
under the guidance of Pope St. Celestine,
formally condemned the errors of Nestorius
and declared as Catholic faith
the doctrine that:
The Blessed Virgin Mary,
Who gave birth to Jesus,
was truly
the Mother of God.

The Holy Mother of God
of Perpetual Succour.

Please honour the Holy Mother of God
by praying the following
for the special intention
of the Sons of the Most Holy Redeemer.

Sub tuum praesidium
confugimus,
Sancta Dei Genitrix.
Nostras deprecationes ne despicias
in necessitatibus nostris,
sed a periculis cunctis
libera nos semper,
Virgo Gloriosa et Benedicta.

Under thy protection
we seek refuge,
Holy Mother of God;
despise not our petitions
in our needs,
but from all dangers
deliver us always,
Virgin Glorious and Blessed.

Mother of Perpetual Succour, pray for us!
Sancta Dei Genetrix, ora pro nobis!

We pray the Litany of the Blessed Virgin Mary
for you our spiritual Benefactors.
We count on your holy prayers.

 

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